Showing posts with label Cambodia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cambodia. Show all posts

Thursday, June 27, 2013

One year ago today - Willing hearts - Changed lives // Cambodia


((warning, long post, but I think it's worth reading))


Last year, around this same time, Steve and I were on a plane headed to Cambodia for a two week trip to serve alongside a mission group In His Steps International (IHSI). We were eager to go, ready to learn and unaware of what it would really be like. You could say we limited our expectations, and rightfully so.

The land was unfamiliar. The homes were not your typical one-story ranches. Driving? Well, do it at your own risk. And Beauty was found in every person we met and we will be forever influenced by our experience.

We spent days teaching English to kids in the village where ISHI was located. Steve made some amazing connections with young men and women eager to go to college. We also painted a government fence. Doesn’t sound to cool, but it helped IHSI a lot. Having positive relationships with the government in Cambodia gives IHSI much favor: In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, "God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble." (1Peter 5:5) 

Then we spent a few days in smaller farming villages. Here, we put on a children’s program with songs, dancing and all sorts of activities. The children were so excited to play with us but we were blessed more! As a group, we put together a short program illustrating basic health care procedures. In some of the smaller villages, women and men would hold a baby upside down shaking them when they were choking they never learned the proper ways to take care of burns, cuts and choking. It was a great feeling leaving the village Pastor with a first aid kit and a demonstration on how to use each item.

Cambodia reenergized and helped me to prioritize my time and influence. It has helped me to call out my passions and skills and use them. Use them to bring Glory to my God and to change someone's life. 

The missionary team, made up of both Americans and Cambodians taught me what it really looks like to love community, people and to serve radically. Seriously, they never stopped serving. They influence so much change in their own community. How do they do it? They love purely and deeply. Seems simple enough, but I know that my day-to-day life pushes out the needs of others and highlights my own wants and desires. God teaches us to love others the way we love ourselves. That means more to me now. I make sure I am clothed, fed, entertained...what about my neighbors?

I am forever grateful for my time in Cambodia and I am forever changed! 


Steve teaching
((From my husband, Steve)) Cambodia changed my outlook on short-term mission trips. I have heard some people have a negative outlook on these trips and I, myself, somewhat did as well prior to going to Cambodia. However, I learned first-hand some of the valuable outcomes. Here are a few:

  1. The encouragement, knowledge, wisdom and connection any short term missionary shares with just one native person (and vice versa) can have a lasting, life-long positive affect. That aspect alone makes short term missions worthwhile. I had the privilege of guest-teaching the most advanced English class every week day I was there (10 week days) and shared this very experience with three of my students. Their names are Tuo, Chantha, and Sreymom. We always found ourselves staying together at least an extra 30 minutes after class, just sharing life experiences with each other. They even came to class an hour early to play a game called "oouu", which I joined and played with them once I warmed up to the rules. Tuo was in tears when I left, and I even left him my favorite Denver Broncos ball cap. I really miss them.
  2. Short-term missions are a great way to sample what long-term missions would be like. It is like an internship of sorts and allows you to obtain a better understanding of what long-term missionaries do day in and day out. It may even spur somebody onto devoting their lives to this work, and that indeed happened with several of the workers with In His Steps International.
  3. It re-energizes and encourages the missionaries that are there full-time. Just a simple conversation about sports and what’s happening in the U.S. is exciting for them and gives them a taste of their prior lives back home where they grew up.
  4. Never under estimate what God can do with a willing heart. Even if it is only a two week commitment, a lot of progress can be made.

To view our photo album here.

with joy,
Aneta


Sunday, March 24, 2013

New Series // #HandmadeHomemade2013: Napkins

Ah, finally I'm starting the series that was on my list since we rang in the new year: #HandmadeHomemade2013 (you can follow along on instagram with that hashtag). 

Ever since my return from Cambodia, I had it on my heart to live life more simply and to spend less on convenient products - plus I love that my mom and grandma taught me to stretch a penny! And by stretching a penny I'm talking about my grandma washing, drying and reusing Ziploc bags!

So, here's to a year of exploring ways to make the penny go farther and to making handmade/homemade items and products!

Things on my list include:

  • cloth napkins
  • salsa
  • hummus
  • detergent
  • dish soap 
  • candles
  • cleaning products
  • ketchup 
  • tomato sauce

..... any other suggestions? leave me a comment with an idea!

Last night, I stayed up to sew my cloth napkins. I was inspired by other bloggers that were finding great Etsy shops for their fabric. I ordered mis-matched fabrics and made napkins!



I just have to pick out a neon color thread! It's more fun! 
I folded the hem only once and pinned it down - should have done a double hem to stop the fray,
but you live you learn! 

and sew...it's pretty simple 





the finished product

Find fun fabric here:
StashModernFabric
Mix Fabrics
FiveMonkeyFabrics

with joy,
Aneta Nina

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

:not normal:

I've been reading Anything by Jennie Allen, and it's been inspiring and challenging to say the least! Last night, during our quiet reading time, I read a chapter in Anything. I marked up the entire chapter - I guess it was hitting home with me!

I had re-read a few pages to Steve because what Jennie was wrote was exactly what I have been asking myself....

Chapter 5 began with these written words, "I just don't want to be normal." In the past few months, maybe years or even earlier, I remember having a desire to seek out something different. I tend to question life and the patterns we all seem to follow. This notion was amplified during our time in Cambodia because America's "normal" is quite different than Cambodia's "normal." But it seems as time passes "normal" seems to come out from a place of necessity. Or does society force us to fall into a pattern? Still thinking about that...

Jennie continues to write, "I knew what was happening was common. As real life and responsibilities pressed in, I felt God being pressed out. Religion, church and Bible study were all in place - but truly surrendered lives, the kind God could use anywhere and in any way he chose, had quickly turned into planned and calculated lives that focused on things like saving for a Suburban or minivan."

I don't think Jennie thinks having a home, a car or living a "normal" life is wrong. But does it press out God when we only go through the motions of life? I know that in my day-to-day, I put a lot of time and effort in my responsibilities and pursuing my selfish desires versus fulfilling God's great commission.

For some of you, this post today may be challenging, convicting or just what you needed to hear today. This book is allowing me to think outside of the box - to not allow fear from experiencing God's full potential for my life.

{photo by Rachael Hope Photography}

Steve and I both agreed that we would start praying different prayers: spend more time listening, more time asking God to show us His way and surrendering it all to Him.

with joy,
Aneta

ps- I would love to hear what you think about this post today. I want this blog to be a place where we can learn from each other and encourage one another!

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Cambodia: Beauty for Ashes

Okay, it's almost 11 p.m. on a Saturday night and I am still lost for words to express my time in Cambodia. I have been typing away all day - a little here and a little there - but mostly I've been hitting the backspace key not satisfied with my expression. I boiled water for tea - which usually brings forth some inspiration - and turned on Pandora. I am already starting to feel more composed.
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I have never been out of the country with the 'mission' to serve. Most of my trips outside of the U.S. were at beautiful resorts that hid the reality of the country I was visiting. But the trip to Cambodia is by far more memorable than any vacation I have been on.

In His Steps International is a ministry made up of some pretty amazing people who serve others with pure hearts. There are two American couples serving full-time as missionaries and we were able to witness their humble work, better yet, we were honored to be part of their mission for two weeks. Instead of Westernizing Cambodia, they are training and empowering Cambodians to influence their own country. And the Cambodian ministry leaders we met were examples of serving, obedience and unfailing love. The American missionaries and the Cambodian ministry leaders sacrifice everyday to empower and influence everyone they encounter.
Theavy - She is the national director of Sak Saum. Sak Saum believes that full restoration of trafficked victims requires treating the body, mind, emotions and spirit.
We spent most of our days teaching English, traveling to villages outside the ministry, and spending time with the women of Sak Saum. Those moments can be described as beauty to ashes - it was a common theme etched in my heart.

When I first arrived to Cambodia my physical eyes saw extreme poverty, chaos, and a country that is recovering from a deadly communist reign led by Pol Pot. But once I was able to really see Cambodia the way God sees it, my lens adjusted mightily. That's when I saw beauty for the ashes. That's when I heard stories of restoration and learned what it truly meant to love without borders. I learned from children who experienced abandonment and children who were sold into the sex trade - from them I learned all about LOVE and FORGIVENESS.

When I heard some of the children's stories, I wanted to cry, but I couldn't. Not because the stories weren't terrifying, not because the stories didn't fill me with anger, but because I saw the children and I experienced their joy. They allowed Jesus to come and restore their innocence that was stolen by man and by death.



Children truly are an example for us all. Matthew 18:3 reads, "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." This passage became another popular theme during my time in Cambodia.
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Tracy, from my team, and Lexi are nurses in Denver.
Going into the villages was a high point for me and I would have to say my husband's too! We both were in our element. My team's time in the villages focused on performing skits about Jesus, games and lots of playing time. In another village, we held a brief health clinic about treating burns and cuts, and performing CPR.

There were quite a few sweet moments with the children, but one in particular will always be hidden in my heart. I made up a game to play called Muy, Bee, Pie! (1-2-3). We raced on one foot! Seriously, it was the most fun I've had and the children's laughs and giggles were from the belly. The sweet moment is shown in the third picture below - this sweet little girl grabs my shirt and runs with me while holding onto my shirt. She saw that I was tired - so she gave me a hand. I will never forget her sweetness.

I could write more, but I will let the pictures show you what my team and I experienced. I can't believe we are home from Cambodia about a month now. My lens on life has been enhanced and adjusted because of Cambodia. When I first arrived, I felt out of place and uncomfortable, and from that came beauty. I saw beauty everywhere especially within the people.  

We don't all have to travel to another country to serve and grow. But we can start in our own community. There are many hurting people that need us to show them genuine love. 






















Photo credit: Gabi Kelley

Photo credit: Gabi Kelley




Denver United girls with Father's House girls!







Cambodia is beautiful....

with joy,
Aneta Nina